Hi Reader! This is a repost by the way.🙈 Enjoy! Ever witnessed a heated debate about the greatest people in a field? Whether it's football, basketball, Hollywood, Kdrama or a comparison of your local universities. Of course, such an argument is to be expected when people pick favourites even among people, places, or things with great qualities. The truth is, every competitor in a “who's the greatest” debate possesses excellent attributes worth admiring and discussing. But, since only a very...
10 days ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader! Last week, I talked about expressing love and gratitude, but let's keep it a hundred, these aren't the only feelings or expressions we manage in our relationships. The closer you are to someone, the more their words and actions could hurt you because you believe they should know and do better. So how do you express hurt, anger, or disappointment without escalating the situation? Take it from someone who's been on both ends, escalating and de-escalating issues, depending on my word...
17 days ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader! Sometimes, it's hard to express how we feel to the people we hold dear. Especially when the words feel emotional, sensitive, or too mushy and cringeworthy. Your culture, environment, and upbringing will also determine your cringe and awkward metre. However, we want the people in our lives to know how much their presence, support, and consistency mean to us. Like some people, I also struggle with expressing my admiration, love, or gratitude. But I find it's easier when I localize my...
24 days ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader! Life has been life-ing. You know how you get really enthusiastic and excited to do something while expecting a specific result. But it doesn't turn out the way you envisioned so you keep trying hoping it eventually turns out great. That's when thoughts of discouragement start to seep in. "Aren't you wasting your time? What's the point? Do something else jare.." But at the end of the day, you know what your motivation is and what your non-negotiables are. If you're feeling even a...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader! You’re familiar with SMART goals, right? Your goals should be Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-bound, right? And honestly, that’s a good place to start. You want to clearly define and consistently perform actions that make sense for your goals. However, I’m a big believer in journeying with faith. Let’s be for real, Reader, sometimes our dreams aren’t specific or realistic. They don’t always seem achievable, and we can’t always speculate exactly when we’ll...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader! One of the things that's consistent about the most successful humans to have ever walked the planet isn't skill, family connections (some might disagree), talent, or even courage to try new things. It's a strong sense of resilience that demands results. What marks resilience is the ability to get back up again. After a failure, distraction, disappointment, hurt, or just a loooong day that feels like it will never end. That’s something you need to become the next or better version...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader! Last week, I talked about setting priorities and being specific about what’s most important to you. Today, let’s talk about enjoying the process as we optimize for great outcomes. You see, Reader, it gets really hard to stick to something when you're yet to see results, especially when it’s time and energy consuming. When your expected outcome doesn’t seem to be coming as fast as you’d like, you wonder when or if they’ll ever come. These moments are where people begin to pivot....
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
Happy New Year!🥳🎉 I pray 2026 opens you up to significant changes and growth in every area of your life. Have a sweet year!🥂 Let's talk about priorities. It's a new year, and most people have set goals for the year. However, our attention is limited, so there's only so much we can do simultaneously. Because the more you do, the less productive you are. If you split your attention too thin across various activities at the same time, you limit your growth and progress in each of them. That's...
2 months ago • 1 min read
Special announcement: Some of my emails have been landing in the promotions tab. Please check them out at your earliest convenience.🙏 Also, I won't be sending an email next week Friday, January 2nd. I'll resume on the 9th of January by God's grace. Enjoy the rest of your holiday! Merry Christmas!🎉⭐ Hi there! 2025 has been an intense year for me, but it has taught me a lot. I wanted to share my biggest takeaway with you. Lessons show us things about life, ourselves, and others we were...
3 months ago • 1 min read