Outcome vs Identity


Hi Reader!

Humans love conditions. We love outcomes.

I’ll do this if they do that”. “I’ll only go out of my way if I get so and so benefit”, and honestly? Sometimes, we need conditions, especially in work environments, because humans will take advantage of things, processes, and people if there are no boundaries whatsoever.

But if a satisfying outcome is the only metric that inspires your decision, would that be an authentic way to live?

What if you did things because that’s who you are (or who you aspire to be)? What if it was your identity or one you were actively building?

Because if you feared God, obeying Him would be enough

If you were a painter, just painting would be satisfying

If you were a person of integrity, honesty would be the norm

If you were compassionate and kind, intentionally causing harm to another person would be out of the question

Beyond outcomes, we really need to think about who we are and what we stand for. What kind of person do you want to be whether or not there’s an outcome attached? I believe that’s worth thinking about at least once a day.😅

Alright, that'll be all for now, until next Friday.

Light & Increase,

Osose Christabel.


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