Identify Your Invisible Drivers


Hi Reader!

People are always quick to point out how important discipline is and how motivation is overrated.

I argue that motivation is the first step to becoming more disciplined. You need a clear picture in your mind of what you desire, so much that you're willing to endure the disciplines it'll take to materialize that image.

Humans don't just embrace discipline. We're motivated by so many things, and I believe it's important to examine our motivations to understand what's really driving us.

I'm motivated by my love for writing and a strong desire to be a writer and creator who inspires positive introspection and changes in people's lives. I want to fulfill God’s purpose by becoming all that I can and need to be.

That's something I think about often. I don’t want to get to the end of my life and realize I didn’t explore every talent and ability that God blessed me with. Every day, I think of how to make progress because I really want to be all that I can be.

You can be motivated by love, social recognition, impact, fame, validation, even fear, and past trauma.

Discipline follows a clear and strong motivation. That’s what I believe. I wrote more about this on the blog.

I hope you identify the hidden drivers propelling your actions and ensure they align with your unique giftings and purpose.

Alright, that'll be all for now, until next Friday.


Light & Increase,

Osose Christabel.


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Something to think about: What is your current primary motive for being in the career/job you’ve chosen?


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