As the week winds down, Friday Cogitations invites you to reflect on the past, embrace the present, and shape your future through the lens of faith, hope, and your unique journey.
Say What You Mean Gracefully
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Hi Reader! Last week, I talked about expressing love and gratitude, but let's keep it a hundred, these aren't the only feelings or expressions we manage in our relationships. The closer you are to someone, the more their words and actions could hurt you because you believe they should know and do better. *Lose the “you never” or “always”. It's an indictment of the person's entire persona and usually makes them defensive. *Focus on solving the issue rather than attacking the person. *Take some time away if you know your tongue is about to unleash venom.😂 *Try to understand the other person's perspective. PS: I'm assuming you're communicating with a reasonable human with mostly good intentions. If you meet or know a “crazy” person, just avoid them for your peace and sanity.😭 Osose Christabel. To share this newsletter, please copy and paste this link: https://osose-friday-cogitations.kit.com/4541619a80 Something to think about: Is there any hurt you need to let go of? I wrote an article about how to be consistent in life with anything. Do check it out.
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Friday Cogitations
As the week winds down, Friday Cogitations invites you to reflect on the past, embrace the present, and shape your future through the lens of faith, hope, and your unique journey.
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